LEATHERMEN SPEAK OUT ON AUTHENTICITY, SELF-ACCEPTANCE AND BROTHERHOOD

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These men powerfully write about, and represent, what makes the gay leather community so strong and vibrant. Their stories are beautiful—honest, insightful and uplifting.

—Steve Lenius, author, Life, Leather and the Pursuit of Happiness

Each tale of discovery and finding a place in the leather or kink community is not only compelling and informative, but the voices offer an array of opportunities for the reader to feel the experience on a deeper and more visceral level.

—Owen Keehnen, author, Leatherman: The Legend of Chuck Renslow

These breezy personal histories are authentic tales of that second coming-out that refocused their lives and re-birthed them into the community of our Leather Tribe.

—Jack Fritscher, Drummer Editor Emeritus, DrummerArchives.com


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What Awaits You Inside

You'll discover 22 heartwarming true stories from leathermen around the world, each charting the journey of coming out as a gay man and then claiming a place in the leather community. These candid, uplifting accounts explore identity, desire, brotherhood, and belonging, offering language for your own leather coming-out and reminders that you are not alone. Along the way, you’ll meet men at different ages and stages of life, see how they navigated doubts and joy, and gain conversation starters for your next leather bar night, event, or quiet chat with a friend.

Raphael

Brazil


Leather gave me
freedom, independence,
and a sense of strength
I never knew before.

Michael

United States


I remember Axe Leito,
a Black Dutch
leatherman who showed
me what was possible.

Austin

United States


Coming out as a
leatherman has been
one of the proudest
choices of my life.

About the Author

Graham Clark is an out, proud gay man and leatherman whose journey has been shaped by moving cities, coming out, and finding his place in the gay community.

Those first few years after relocating were a blur of new friendships, late-night conversations, and hard-won self acceptance as he learned to live as his most authentic self.

Drawn by both curiosity and the warmth of the people he met, Graham found his way into the leather scene and has since become an active part of the community it offers.

With a background in education and digital learning design, Graham is passionate about creating inclusive, accessible experiences that help people connect, grow, and thrive.

He has brought that same care to curating and shaping the 22 stories in this book so that readers can see themselves reflected, find language for their own journeys, and feel less alone as they navigate leather and identity.

Graham lives in Melbourne, Australia with his partner and can often be found sipping a Campari spritz and catching up on RuPaul’s Drag Race.